Step 1. prep lips by using a concealer stick on, and around lips. dust with setting powder.
Step 2. outline lips, and the fill in using a lip liner that matches your lipstick.
Step 3. use a lip brush to apply a thin layer of lipstick, then blot with a tissue. apply a second, thicker layer.
Step 4. dust setting powder to set for a matte lip that won't be going anywhere.
(this would actually work for any strong lip, I just get the most questions about red lips.)